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    Then we say, “I need to trust you” but really we are saying, “I need to see if you are the same as my fantasy”. So we want to fall in love with a fantasy to make us happy. Soon after that, they don’t know how to be authentic, the honeymoon is lost because the fantasy is spoiled. That person either reveals their real self (the lies) or they leave to a place where they are really loved, n

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    My mother died when I was three years old. I had a picture of her in my head for the next 30 years. She was an angel of course, and she never passed wind, or got angry. She was a sort of religious icon to me. But one day I had to go back and check, was this real?

    The answer is obvious, of course not. My mother was human. She was happy and sad, good and bad, and she deserved to be loved for that. Sadly, many of our relationship blocks are based on ideas like this. We either glorify a parent out of fantasy, or we vilify them, and go looking for their opposite.

    Most of us compare who we are with these fantasy people. We think we love anyone who fits these masks. If a woman was like my mum, I’d fall in love. If they were like my step mom, who I judged really harshly for her alcoholism, then I’d run. This is how affairs happen. Our love is not authentic because we are hoping our lover or ourselves, are like someone we knew, or the opposite to someone we knew. We are having an affair with a fantasy of our own creation, not the real person in front of us.

    Sometimes we even complain because this lover in front of us is not like the person we dreamed up. Those heroes and heroines are invented in childhood based on our circumstances with our parents. So, many people fall in love with a fantasy of who they want you to be, rather than who you are. Now there is an authenticity problem. Do you be yourself and confront their fantasy, or do you be yourself and lie to them. Those are the only two choices when facing the delusion of a “hurt” lover.

    Then we say, “I need to trust you” but really we are saying, “I need to see if you are the same as my fantasy”. So we want to fall in love with a fantasy to make us happy. Soon after that, they don’t know how to be authentic, the honeymoon is lost because the fantasy is spoiled. That person either reveals their real self (the lies) or they leave to a place where they are really loved, no

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    for that. Sadly, many of our relationship blocks are based on ideas like this. We either glorify a parent out of fantasy, or we vilify them, and go looking for their opposite.

    Most of us compare who we are with these fantasy people. We think we love anyone who fits these masks. If a woman was like my mum, I’d fall in love. If they were like my step mom, who I judged really harshly for her alcoholism, then I’d run. This is how affairs happen. Our love is not authentic because we are hoping our lover or ourselves, are like someone we knew, or the opposite to someone we knew. We are having an affair with a fantasy of our own creation, not the real person in front of us.

    Sometimes we even complain because this lover in front of us is not like the person we dreamed up. Those heroes and heroines are invented in childhood based on our circumstances with our parents. So, many people fall in love with a fantasy of who they want you to be, rather than who you are. Now there is an authenticity problem. Do you be yourself and confront their fantasy, or do you be yourself and lie to them. Those are the only two choices when facing the delusion of a “hurt” lover.

    Then we say, “I need to trust you” but really we are saying, “I need to see if you are the same as my fantasy”. So we want to fall in love with a fantasy to make us happy. Soon after that, they don’t know how to be authentic, the honeymoon is lost because the fantasy is spoiled. That person either reveals their real self (the lies) or they leave to a place where they are really loved, n

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    her alcoholism, then I’d run. This is how affairs happen. Our love is not authentic because we are hoping our lover or ourselves, are like someone we knew, or the opposite to someone we knew. We are having an affair with a fantasy of our own creation, not the real person in front of us.

    Sometimes we even complain because this lover in front of us is not like the person we dreamed up. Those heroes and heroines are invented in childhood based on our circumstances with our parents. So, many people fall in love with a fantasy of who they want you to be, rather than who you are. Now there is an authenticity problem. Do you be yourself and confront their fantasy, or do you be yourself and lie to them. Those are the only two choices when facing the delusion of a “hurt” lover.

    Then we say, “I need to trust you” but really we are saying, “I need to see if you are the same as my fantasy”. So we want to fall in love with a fantasy to make us happy. Soon after that, they don’t know how to be authentic, the honeymoon is lost because the fantasy is spoiled. That person either reveals their real self (the lies) or they leave to a place where they are really loved, n

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    Those heroes and heroines are invented in childhood based on our circumstances with our parents. So, many people fall in love with a fantasy of who they want you to be, rather than who you are. Now there is an authenticity problem. Do you be yourself and confront their fantasy, or do you be yourself and lie to them. Those are the only two choices when facing the delusion of a “hurt” lover.

    Then we say, “I need to trust you” but really we are saying, “I need to see if you are the same as my fantasy”. So we want to fall in love with a fantasy to make us happy. Soon after that, they don’t know how to be authentic, the honeymoon is lost because the fantasy is spoiled. That person either reveals their real self (the lies) or they leave to a place where they are really loved, n

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    Then we say, “I need to trust you” but really we are saying, “I need to see if you are the same as my fantasy”. So we want to fall in love with a fantasy to make us happy. Soon after that, they don’t know how to be authentic, the honeymoon is lost because the fantasy is spoiled. That person either reveals their real self (the lies) or they leave to a place where they are really loved, not projected onto.

    You must learn how to love the past, rather than build fantasies that avoid it. Everything and everyone in your past had two sides. That’s the beginning. Then to say they gave you both pleasure and pain, is the second step. Blocking love to the past, or infatuating it, makes loving today very difficult. If you can’t love your parents, (see both support and challenge) you will not find sacred love. Unblock love. Then you have truly grown up. Then your relationship with your beloved is not based on reaction to your parents, but on today, romance and true love. This is authenticity, actually turning up ready to be in love. Your parents deserve your love, and this is how you release yourself to be in a sacred relationship.

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