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Case Upon - Paying For a Date - Who Foots the Bill?
Modern governments make it a point of honor to repay their debts. Debt repayment maintains and strengthens the national credit. If a national emergency arises later, it will be easy to raise funds. The repayment of loans also releases funds for trade and industry. There are some methods, which play a pivotal part in debt help. Firstly, there is utilization of surplus revenue. This is an old method and badly out of tune with the modern conditions. A budget surplus is not a common phenomenon. Even when there is a surplus, it is insignificant if it cannot be used for making any substantial reduction in the debt.Secondly, the government may buy its own stock in the market, thus wiping off its obligation to that extent. This may be done by the application of surplus revenues, or by borrowing at low rates if the conditions are favorable. When it is intended to wipe out a permanent debt, it may be arranged to pay the creditors a certain fixed amount for a number of years. These annual payments are called annuities. It will appear that, during the time these annuities are being paid, there will be much g
• She might be insisting that you pay for your dates as an indication that you care about her. If that is the case, you can be sure that as your relationship progresses, there will be many more such demands.
• She might just be generally selfish.
If you’re going to continue in a relationship with this woman, wouldn’t you want to know for certain whether any of the above possibilities is true? It would be foolish to wonder and worry
Franchised companies often require what some believe to be excessive insurance requirements. This is because so often if a franchise is sued for any reason that the Lawyers go after the big money of the franchisors and name them in the lawsuit. It is amazing that a lawyer can write garbage in a lawsuit and file it in court and if you do not hire another lawyer to fight them, you could lose your entire life’s work and company. But our legal system as most entrepreneurs agree is a complete joke and more closely represents the extortion tactics of the mob than any legitimate sense of fairness or truth. This is why franchisors must require huge limits of liability insurance and additional insured certificates as part of the franchise agreement.It behooves a franchisor to set aside a place in the Official and Confidential Operations Manual to explain to franchisees why these requirements are in place. Franchisees are put at a disadvantage to other businesses in the market place due to the high costs of liability insurance required. But due to the lawsuits and lawyers it is imperative that these insura
Let’s take a look at this problem from the point of view of a friend of mine who recently related the following situation to me: "I am currently dating a woman who makes a very lucrative income, but it seems that every time we go out on a date, she never offers to pay for anything, so she expects me to take care of everything. Financially, I’m capable of paying for our entertainment, meals, etc, but I don’t like the expectation that I’ll always be the one who pays. I would appreciate it if she would contribute. I hate to bring this up, though, because I’m afraid it makes me look cheap?"
In relationships most people waste their time and effort
• trying to change their partner. It simply doesn’t work.
• worrying about what might happen. Think about the last time that the act of worry either made you happy or produced a positive result in someone else’s behavior.
• dropping hints about what they want. Hints simply produce confusion and disappointment.
• feeling irritated about what they don’t get. Anger uniformly poisons us and destroys our relationships with others.
It’s much wiser to remember that in all our relationships, we have three choices:
Live with it and like it.
Live with it and hate it.
Leave it.
How do we make these choices? We tell the truth about ourselves, occasionally express our preferences, and gather information. Now, what would that look like in your situation?
First, you don’t know the meaning of your girlfriend’s expectation that you will assume the financial burden of your dating activities.
• She might come from a family or cultural background where it is uniformly assume that men are responsible for finances. She might be willing to adapt to your preference, or she may be completely inflexible on the subject. If you’re going to develop a relationship with this woman, that kind of information would be useful.
• She might be embarrassed to talk about money issues. Many people avoid discussions of money, and that is also a piece of information you would want to know about a potential partner.
• She might be looking for you to take the lead on what direction to take in any decision: financial, relationship, or otherwise. That too would be important to know about her.
• She might be insisting that you pay for your dates as an indication that you care about her. If that is the case, you can be sure that as your relationship progresses, there will be many more such demands.
• She might just be generally selfish.
If you’re going to continue in a relationship with this woman, wouldn’t you want to know for certain whether any of the above possibilities is true? It would be foolish to wonder and worry
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In relationships most people waste their time and effort
• trying to change their partner. It simply doesn’t work.
• worrying about what might happen. Think about the last time that the act of worry either made you happy or produced a positive result in someone else’s behavior.
• dropping hints about what they want. Hints simply produce confusion and disappointment.
• feeling irritated about what they don’t get. Anger uniformly poisons us and destroys our relationships with others.
It’s much wiser to remember that in all our relationships, we have three choices:
Live with it and like it.
Live with it and hate it.
Leave it.
How do we make these choices? We tell the truth about ourselves, occasionally express our preferences, and gather information. Now, what would that look like in your situation?
First, you don’t know the meaning of your girlfriend’s expectation that you will assume the financial burden of your dating activities.
• She might come from a family or cultural background where it is uniformly assume that men are responsible for finances. She might be willing to adapt to your preference, or she may be completely inflexible on the subject. If you’re going to develop a relationship with this woman, that kind of information would be useful.
• She might be embarrassed to talk about money issues. Many people avoid discussions of money, and that is also a piece of information you would want to know about a potential partner.
• She might be looking for you to take the lead on what direction to take in any decision: financial, relationship, or otherwise. That too would be important to know about her.
• She might be insisting that you pay for your dates as an indication that you care about her. If that is the case, you can be sure that as your relationship progresses, there will be many more such demands.
• She might just be generally selfish.
If you’re going to continue in a relationship with this woman, wouldn’t you want to know for certain whether any of the above possibilities is true? It would be foolish to wonder and worry
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• feeling irritated about what they don’t get. Anger uniformly poisons us and destroys our relationships with others.
It’s much wiser to remember that in all our relationships, we have three choices:
Live with it and like it.
Live with it and hate it.
Leave it.
How do we make these choices? We tell the truth about ourselves, occasionally express our preferences, and gather information. Now, what would that look like in your situation?
First, you don’t know the meaning of your girlfriend’s expectation that you will assume the financial burden of your dating activities.
• She might come from a family or cultural background where it is uniformly assume that men are responsible for finances. She might be willing to adapt to your preference, or she may be completely inflexible on the subject. If you’re going to develop a relationship with this woman, that kind of information would be useful.
• She might be embarrassed to talk about money issues. Many people avoid discussions of money, and that is also a piece of information you would want to know about a potential partner.
• She might be looking for you to take the lead on what direction to take in any decision: financial, relationship, or otherwise. That too would be important to know about her.
• She might be insisting that you pay for your dates as an indication that you care about her. If that is the case, you can be sure that as your relationship progresses, there will be many more such demands.
• She might just be generally selfish.
If you’re going to continue in a relationship with this woman, wouldn’t you want to know for certain whether any of the above possibilities is true? It would be foolish to wonder and worry
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• She might come from a family or cultural background where it is uniformly assume that men are responsible for finances. She might be willing to adapt to your preference, or she may be completely inflexible on the subject. If you’re going to develop a relationship with this woman, that kind of information would be useful.
• She might be embarrassed to talk about money issues. Many people avoid discussions of money, and that is also a piece of information you would want to know about a potential partner.
• She might be looking for you to take the lead on what direction to take in any decision: financial, relationship, or otherwise. That too would be important to know about her.
• She might be insisting that you pay for your dates as an indication that you care about her. If that is the case, you can be sure that as your relationship progresses, there will be many more such demands.
• She might just be generally selfish.
If you’re going to continue in a relationship with this woman, wouldn’t you want to know for certain whether any of the above possibilities is true? It would be foolish to wonder and worry
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• She might be insisting that you pay for your dates as an indication that you care about her. If that is the case, you can be sure that as your relationship progresses, there will be many more such demands.
• She might just be generally selfish.
If you’re going to continue in a relationship with this woman, wouldn’t you want to know for certain whether any of the above possibilities is true? It would be foolish to wonder and worry about them, so you need to find out.
Hints certainly don’t work very well. You’ll need to bring the subject up. What could you say to her? Here are some examples, and you can pick one or more than one of them to use. Or make up your own. These are just some options.
• "In past relationships, I’ve wasted a lot of time trying to figure out what my partner wanted, or what she was like, and I’ve realized that’s pretty dumb."
• "I’ve enjoyed the time I’ve spent with you, and I’d like to get to know you better. Do you mind if I ask you some questions about relationships?"
• "I’ve been in relationships where women assume that men will pay for everything on a day. In others women prefer to pay their way, and some are actually offended if the man pays. Some women don’t like to talk about money at all. Where are you on the subject?"
• "I have my own preferences about how people should handle paying for activities when they’re dating, but I’d like to learn what yours are."
• "Up to this point, I’ve been paying for whatever we do on a date, and I’ve been wrong to assume that that’s how you want it. What is your preference?"
After you’ve asked her why she seems to expect you to pay for everything on your dates, there are a number of answers she might give, and remember, it’s all useful information.
First, she might explain that her behavior comes from family training or a cultural background, and she might express a willingness to accommodate your wishes. In that case, you’ve accomplished a lot: You’ve learned more about her, you’ve been honest in your relationship, and you’ve actually worked out a difference together.
Second, you may discover that her behavior is related to family or culture—as we just discussed—but that she is absolutely unwilling to consider modifying her behavior. Don’t get excited. This is just one issue, but file it away as a piece of information, and note whether she gets stubborn and unreasonable about many other issues because of family training or cultural background. Then you have to decide whether you want to have a partner who will very likely be unreasonable for a lifetime about quite number of issues that may be important to you.
Third, you might discover that she is simply reluctant to talk about money, but that if you bring the subject up, she’ll gladly participate in productive conversation. Again, you both win.
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